Monday, June 14, 2010

TRAUMA!

We had quite the traumatic experience the other day here at our house. Koen and I were in the laundry room where I was switching the laundry. He wanted me to put his jacket on him so he could go outside with Austin. I told him I would as soon as I was done. Koen headed out of the laundry room ahead of me and I closed the door behind me. All of a sudden Koen started screaming and I looked over and he was holding his hand and there was blood dripping off his hands. I immediately grabbed him and ran into the bathroom where I rinsed the blood off his hand so I could see what happened. I then realized that his pinky was missing the tip. I hurried and called Scott at work and then loaded the boys in the car to head over to his office. Scott took a look at it and said to take him to the ER. Koen and I headed over there to see what they could do for him. Scott went home to look for the tip of his finger and found it stuck in the door still (Sorry - that's kind of gross) and brought it to the ER. They called in an orthopedic surgeon to see what he could do. He told us we could try and sew the tip back on and see if it would live, but there wasn't too much of a chance that it would. We thought we would try mostly for the fact that we could tell Koen later in life that we tried and also for all we knew it could possibly work.

 Koen was so tough. He only cried for seriously about 5 minutes and then was pretty calm. He cried again when the doctor numbed his finger, but hasn't complained one bit since. He is a trooper. It's amazing the pain tolerance these little guys have.

It cut the finger down to the bottom of his nail and it was on the side of the door with the hinges. After the doctor sewed it back on, he proceeded to tell Koen that there were spiders on his finger. He was not so sure about that. Who tells a little kid that there are bugs on them? Every time he looks at his bandage he says that the bugs are gone.


He was so brave to look at it and let daddy switch the bandage. We went into the doctor on Saturday night to have him check it and he wasn't sure the finger tip would take. He wanted to give it a couple more days, so we go back today to see for sure. If it doesn't take, they will take the tip back off and let the open finger scar over on its own along with a few stitches.

Koen is doing really good and it doesn't seem to phase him too bad. It definitely hasn't slowed him down. I think it affected me and Scott more than it did him. He is a trooper and being such a big boy. We are so grateful that it wasn't any worse. Hopefully I can learn from this and be a little more careful. It was definitely a day of a rollercoaster of emotions. It just makes me sick to think about. It's terrible to watch your kids be in pain (especially when you were the cause). I know it was an accident, but it's just the fact that it happened. Hopefully the doctor will have good news for us today - if so, it will be a miracle. We'll see!

16 comments:

Lacey Fay Cottrell said...

Wowsers!! He is one tough cookie! Accidents like that are so hard on everyone in the family. Quick thinking on your and Scott's part really helped the situation for your boy. Hope recovery goes smoothly for him and remember accidents happen. take care Ulrich Family!!

Christiansen 6 said...

That was sure a big chunk of his finger! That must have been a strong door! I hope that all goes well and that he recovers quickly. Accidents happen, and he is young and resiliant. Now he will have a story to tell when he is older! Glad he is okay and that it wasn't worse!

Mike and Kaci said...

He is a trooper! I would have freaked. He acted like it was old news when I asked to see it yesterday.

Deb said...

Wow...what a story! I am still cringing. You are a good Mommy!! What a traumatic day for you guys. Keep us posted!!

Erin said...

Wow. I didn't know that doors could cause that kind of damage. GLad that he is being a tuff kid. Keep us posted.

Nicole said...

Oh my! That is so crazy! That poor kid and poor you! That is awful! I hope everything turns out good!

The Caple Crew said...

oh no that poor boy!

Courtney said...

Oh Katie, so sorry that happened. Hope the appointment went well. Keep us posted. Glad he was such a great trooper!

KESLER KREW...Cami said...

katie that is so sad! little kids are so tough though...im really proud of koen, he is so cute! weve been thinking about you guys, talk soon! *cami

Brandon and Emily said...

Holy Crap! I am just sick for him! What a tough kid! Hope everything goes well!

Shelli said...

Wow, Katie...what a story. I hope the little guy's finger takes. Those types of accidents make us slow down a bit, don't they? Glad it wasn't more severe. Good luck with the continued recovery! Love you guys!

The Miles Family said...

Hey Scott and Katie, we are still thinking about Koen and you guys. Hope everything went well.

Lori said...

Hey,Katie and Scott...Lori Reader here. I have a friend who's daughter lost the tips of 2 of her fingers. I'll leave a link to her story if you want to check it out. It is amazing and faith building for sure. Your little guy will heal up in no time. I do think it is harder (more traumatic maybe) for the parents. Kids are amazing and resilient. Hang in there!
http://over-reacting.blogspot.com/2010/07/anniversary-of-miracle-see-note-at.html

Angela said...

What a tale he'll be able to tell when he grows up. My father lost the tip of his index finger when he was a boy. The grand kids are always so intrigued by it.
Koen is such a sweetheart and you're a sweetie of a mom! Accidents happen so don't mentally beat yourself up because of it. You're an excellent momma!

Tia said...

Oh no! How is his finger doing now? I'll have to show this blog post to Kevin, since he can relate!

brooklyn said...

oh my gosh! i can't believe it. how is he doing now? did the finger heal? or did they have to remove it. wow. what a brave kiddo!